This time of year always proves to be kind of a grind to me. From the middle of January
through February to the end of March, cabin fever begins to set in as many outside activities are on hold because of the cold weather. The days are still short and they seem gray and dull. I realize that Punxsutawney Phil did not see his shadow on Groundhog’s day and that means that we are going to get an early spring (this according to the famous rodent’s website www.punxsutawneyphil.com). But the winter generally persists in hanging on until the bitter end and it keeps many people cooped up within the proverbial four walls of their homes.
I, personally, like to be on the move. I enjoy travelling and especially flying, but sometimes there can be major delays that you have to deal with when you fly. Have you ever been on a flight that got stuck in in a holding pattern? The plane can’t land because there are too many planes in the landing pattern or there is another plane at your gate, or there is severe weather in the area. Holding patterns take place for these and other reasons. There is something potentially dangerous ahead that the pilot is trying to avoid.
But we don’t like being stuck in holding patterns. They are a waste of our time. They cause us to miss our connections. They cause us to wonder as we are flying around if the plane has enough fuel to make it. The reality is this, there are many areas of our lives that can be stuck in a holding pattern from time to time.
And when an area of our life is on hold and we look around, it seems that the people we see are on the move. Everyone else has a job, a growing ministry, good health, and money. Why not us? Other people’s lives and ministries are moving forward and there we are, stuck in some holding pattern. And saying that you are simply waiting can sound like such a cop out. It sounds like you aren’t smart enough to come up with a better plan to move things forward.
Why is it so difficult to wait? Here are a few reasons: We know that time is slipping through our hands and we only have a limited amount. We know that we are missing something somewhere because we have to wait here. We don’t schedule delays. When we are forced to be idle and cabin fever sets in, the mind tends to focus on our failures. We begin to second guess our decisions. We start thinking, “Since this isn’t going anywhere, should I look for another ministry?” When we are forced to wait we tend to grow more frustrated with the circumstances and honestly, we can grow frustrated with God. We wonder, “What is He up to? Surely He sees, and knows, and cares. Then why am I in this holding pattern?” The bottom line is this, we hate waiting because we don’t like it when we are not in control.
Solomon wrote in Ecclesiastes 7:8 (NKJV) “The end of a thing is better than its beginning; The patient in spirit is better than the proud in spirit.”
The truth is, waiting is something that is inevitable, it happens to everyone. However, after a protracted season of waiting we can feel like we have been forgotten. Have you ever been to a restaurant where you received that pager and someone who came in after you gets called before you? You look at your pager and think, “Is it broken? Is something wrong? Did they forget me?” We tend to ask the same thing about God. “Is something wrong? Did God forget me?”
The fact is God has not forgotten you. He is preparing you and He is preparing things for you. Holding patterns take place for a reason. There is something potentially dangerous ahead that the pilot is trying to avoid. When God puts an area of your life into a holding pattern He is orchestrating things so that you have a safe arrival. He orchestrates things for you with the absolute best in mind. He is not trying to delay you just to make you wait.
Abraham & Sarah, Joseph, Moses, David, and the heros of our faith all had something in common. They each knew something very important. Those men and women in Scripture who were blessed greatly and who were used greatly by God had learned the art of waiting. Paul did so as well. He wrote in Philippians 1:12 (NIV) “Now I want you to know, brothers, that what has happened to me has really served to advance the gospel.” It’s amazing to me that Paul’s confinement under house arrest led to the Gospel’s furtherance. The message went forward because Paul was forced to sit still, because God had him in a holding pattern.
That time of confinement was only for a season in Paul’s ministry. Your holding pattern in your life or in your ministry is as well. And pretty soon the weather will break, Spring will arrive, the days will get longer, and the winter grind will come to an end.